classic waka stream

Even if it should
remember us as those who
knew it long—on what
grounds could we stay on here now,
pillar of cypress, and remain?

Meaning
Even if it remembers us as those who knew it long, on what grounds could we stay on here now, pillar of cypress?
Commentary
Part One: Makibashira

 Since the girl was weeping too hard to finish, her mother said, "Come," and made this poem. The women in attendance were sad each in her own way, and looked even at trees and grasses they had never thought about, saying how they would long for them once gone, and sniffled together. Then the carriages were brought round; and looking back, feeling that they would never see the place again, they kept their eyes on the treetops and turned to look until it was out of sight.

 "Known it long" repeats her daughter's phrase exactly. "On what grounds could we stay" is a rhetorical question: there is no ground; there is no longer a place for us here. The child had begged the pillar not to forget her, and the mother answers by denying the attachment outright—the same technique of reversing a poem's sense with its own words, used here not to console but to make her let go. In these lines the hardness of a woman leaving the house of many years without allowing herself sentiment, and the depth of what lies under it, exist together.
Author
Murasaki Shikibu
Source
Genji Monogatari
Other