classic waka stream

つらさをば君にならひて知りぬるを
うれしきことを誰に問はまし
Roma-ji

Tsurasa o ba kimi ni naraite shirinuru o ureshiki koto o tare ni towamashi

English Translation
Of bitterness, I
have learned from you all there is
and know it full well,
but of joy, whom should I ask
to teach me what that might be
Meaning
Bitterness I have learned from you and know all too well, but whom should I ask to teach me what joy is?
Commentary
Book Seven Love Poems I 222

The poet has learned bitterness thoroughly from the beloved's coldness, but there is no one to teach him joy, and he wonders whom to ask. The conceit of being taught lightly expresses resentment toward one who teaches only pain.

The first line, "tsurasa o ba" (bitterness), singles it out with the emphatic "ba."
The second line, "kimi ni naraite" (learning from you), means the beloved's coldness has been his model of pain.
The third line, "shirinuru o," adds the concessive "o" to the attributive perfective: though I have come to know it.
The fourth line, "ureshiki koto o" (joy), pairs with "tsurasa" in the first line. The next poem, 223, takes it up with "ureshiki wa," weighing joy against sorrow.
The final line, "tare ni towamashi," uses "mashi" for hesitant intention, ending in perplexity: whom should I ask?
Author
Dōmyō
Source
Shika Wakashu
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